Not Sure What To Think!!!!!

A friend of mine that happens to come for Colombia turned a year older the first of May but the gang never got around to having a party for her because we busy with other things and some of them were working. She's mad at another mad over the group for tease her about the guy she's with. She wants me to go to the party but she doesn't want my best friend and her boyfriend to go for because of the guy that she's mad at. She phoned me up to see if I wanted to go. I told that if my friend and her boyfriend couldn't go than I didn't want to be there either. The teasing that made her angry at this guy in the gang happened over a month ago and I really think it's time that she put it behind her but she won't. If her, her boyfriend and my cousin want to do something that bad for her party and don't want certain people to be there that I don't really care. None of the rest of us have a problem with the one she's mad at because we know that he sometimes is like that and we've learned to except him just that the way he is. When I told her that I didn't want to go if my friend and her boyfriend couldn't go she said that was alright but I serious think that she's a little ticked at me. I really don't care honestly because she's acting like a little child. I don't really want to hangout with her if she's going to be like that and if the other are going to take her side than that's their choice. My cousin doesn't even phone me as much anymore. I mostly talk with my two best friends and the guys in there life more. It seems to me that gang just isn't the way it use to be and it's small with the other three but I guess that's just how it's going to be for now on not unless the other three stop being acting so childish over the whole thing. What does everyone else think on her?

Girl, you are justified in what you did. Good job in standing up for your friend and her boyfriend. I know my best friend would do that for me and mine. (If you don't know, my boyfriend and I broke up awhile back, because I need to focus on school. We're back together.) I agree with you and how you see the situation.

JessicaMarie wrote:Girl, you are justified in what you did. Good job in standing up for your friend and her boyfriend. I know my best friend would do that for me and mine. (If you don't know, my boyfriend and I broke up awhile back, because I need to focus on school. We're back together.) I agree with you and how you see the situation.

Thanks Allysa. I'm glad that you see my way. She phoned me a couple times since I talked to but I don't want to talk to.

I've had friends like that. It's not cool. Angel and I deal with that crap all the time.

Things a little better now because she talked my cousin about it. She's inviting the guy that she had the issue with, my best friend and her boyfriend now. She's my friend of facebook so I sent her message to let her know that I was sorry for not answering her phone calls. I also told that the guy she had a issue with likes to tease so it's something that she'll have to get use to because everyone is. When he gets like that everyone else just laughs it off.

That's awesome. Glad thing are better!

My best friend's birthday is coming up next month along with Melissa AKA *~Sweetie81*~'s fiance too. There's just one problem with Melissa's fiance's party which is the place where it's beginning held. It's been held at my cousin's place and I don't particular like his mother that much because she's annoying me by asking when me and my boyfriend are getting married or that place where I work will find me a job just like they did for her son. I'm getting the point where one of these days I'm just going tell her off and I don't care who gets mad at me because my life is none of her business. She asks the same thing to Melissa and her fiance too. Melissa's fiance told that last time that it was none of her business. I'm hoping that she'll leave me alone this time because Melissa's fiance's parents are going to be there. I also hope that she doesn't starting asking my best friend when her and her boyfriend are getting married because they haven't even been together for a month yet so it's a little early for people to be asking that. My best friend and her boyfriend are just happy with the way things are going now. The only thing that's strange for the rest of the gang is that before my best friend starting out with the guy she's with he was really quite and kept sort of to himself but now he's a lot more outgoing and it's just a big change for us to see him like this.

My friend still doesn't really like the idea of hanging with the guy that she has an issue with but she knows now that in order for me to hangout that he has to come because it's not fair to leave him out after he's part of the gang. I told her that he likes to tease and she'll just have learn to deal with it because that's the way he is.

So true, girl. So true.

I got an message from her on facebook just recently. She said that I was right and she was going to try really hard to accept the guy that she has issue with just the way he is.

She's a lot better with the whole situation and she's going really hard to get along with everyone. I'm really happy that things are looking better with her and the gang.