I didn't know whether to post this here or in celebrations (Idk if this forum has a celebration board or not, i dont remember). buy yea as the titles says... we aint friends no more. me and rolanda havent really been that close anyway, no more than her juss wantin' things made. well.. about a month or so now, the friendship ended. i'm not upset about it, truth is... i dont really care anyway, havent talked to her in years before recently and she never really seemed to care about what goes on in another person's life other than her own, she's pretty much all about herself.
anyways... my memory aint the best so i'll try to explain as best as i can.
Jennifer (who's been my online best friend for around 10-11yrs, we met on the old ATN), we lost touch for a bit, but thanks to Eli (Kivessin) he reconnected us and i'm thankful for that. Anyways... after Jennifer returned to the online community and back to Together Forever, she found out she was banned.... for stuff that happened 8yrs ago (i still think this is stupid), keep in mind that Jennifer was banned in May of THIS year (2019) from stuff that happened n 2011. that was so wrong of her to do but anyways at first i thought i might have done it (dont know why i would have) so i unbanned her and she came back to the forum. Some days go by and Nymphatina checks the security logs of the forum and found out that it was Rolanda who banned Jennifer. Nymphatina asked rolanda about it and it was sumthin' completely stuff and it was an issue that was resolved back in 2011. So rolanda didn't want Jennifer back on the forum, but tough shit, she was unbanned and back on the forum.
A couple of days go by and rolanda kept looking for reasons to banned Jennifer... which Jennifer wasn't doin' anythin' wrong and once again wrongfully banned, when other administrators said no, she wouldn't listen. she acted like it was her forum. she wasnt even that active there. i think in total Jennifer was banned 2 to 3 times. The last time bein' that she posted in her own personal board about another member or sumthin', I forgot what exactly that she posted. but it bein' HER OWN personal board, she's ALLOWED to post whatever she wanted. And she didnt want a certain member postin' in her board and she asked that member to stop (which he did after nicely tellin' her to make it a rule). And then she was banned... again, for nothin'.
Rolanda even went as far as sayin' that it if i stayed friends with Jennifer that the forum is better off without me.
Then she starts bein' extremely hateful towards me for no reason. and she basically ignored what all other admins would say to her.
rolanda basically told me not to be friends with Jennifer.
she then goes and bans me and ALL of my friends on everyone one of her forums, even if they had nothin' to do with the fight. she got mad at me and took it out on my friends. She needs to see that what she have done is the childest thing i have seen any adult ever do. and she had the nerves to say that we was the one bein' childish. So after she banned us FIRST, she was banned on all of our forums too. We dont want some control freak on our forums.
she even got mad when i wanted to have my signature changed from the one she made to another... it's ONLY a picture. Only little kids act that way... Love my signature now. It's amazin' (That u im2sp00ky4u!)
Rolanda IF u ever read this..YOU was the one actin' childish, it was YOU who dont know how to be a friend. FRIENDS support their friends decisions. a GOOD friend would have NEVER asked me to end a friendship for no reason. a GOOD friend would have supported me in my decision to be Jennifer's friend.
As I said before, me and Jennifer have been friends for about 10-11yrs, missed a couple of years inbetween, but I never stopped thinkin' about her or how her life might be goin'.
Within' all those years that we DID talk, she have ALWAYS been there for me, even when i wasnt the nicest person, she helped me through whatever shit i might have been goin' thru. THAT is a real friend.
So, yea. I dont care that me and rolanda aint friends, it hurted me at first but after seein' how she is and how bad she did my friend. i juss dont care now.
she finally showed her true self...
Not gonna lie.. I do hate her, i'm glad she's out my life, i don't need toxic people like that in my life.
anyways... my memory aint the best so i'll try to explain as best as i can.
Jennifer (who's been my online best friend for around 10-11yrs, we met on the old ATN), we lost touch for a bit, but thanks to Eli (Kivessin) he reconnected us and i'm thankful for that. Anyways... after Jennifer returned to the online community and back to Together Forever, she found out she was banned.... for stuff that happened 8yrs ago (i still think this is stupid), keep in mind that Jennifer was banned in May of THIS year (2019) from stuff that happened n 2011. that was so wrong of her to do but anyways at first i thought i might have done it (dont know why i would have) so i unbanned her and she came back to the forum. Some days go by and Nymphatina checks the security logs of the forum and found out that it was Rolanda who banned Jennifer. Nymphatina asked rolanda about it and it was sumthin' completely stuff and it was an issue that was resolved back in 2011. So rolanda didn't want Jennifer back on the forum, but tough shit, she was unbanned and back on the forum.
A couple of days go by and rolanda kept looking for reasons to banned Jennifer... which Jennifer wasn't doin' anythin' wrong and once again wrongfully banned, when other administrators said no, she wouldn't listen. she acted like it was her forum. she wasnt even that active there. i think in total Jennifer was banned 2 to 3 times. The last time bein' that she posted in her own personal board about another member or sumthin', I forgot what exactly that she posted. but it bein' HER OWN personal board, she's ALLOWED to post whatever she wanted. And she didnt want a certain member postin' in her board and she asked that member to stop (which he did after nicely tellin' her to make it a rule). And then she was banned... again, for nothin'.
Rolanda even went as far as sayin' that it if i stayed friends with Jennifer that the forum is better off without me.
Then she starts bein' extremely hateful towards me for no reason. and she basically ignored what all other admins would say to her.
rolanda basically told me not to be friends with Jennifer.
she then goes and bans me and ALL of my friends on everyone one of her forums, even if they had nothin' to do with the fight. she got mad at me and took it out on my friends. She needs to see that what she have done is the childest thing i have seen any adult ever do. and she had the nerves to say that we was the one bein' childish. So after she banned us FIRST, she was banned on all of our forums too. We dont want some control freak on our forums.
she even got mad when i wanted to have my signature changed from the one she made to another... it's ONLY a picture. Only little kids act that way... Love my signature now. It's amazin' (That u im2sp00ky4u!)
Rolanda IF u ever read this..YOU was the one actin' childish, it was YOU who dont know how to be a friend. FRIENDS support their friends decisions. a GOOD friend would have NEVER asked me to end a friendship for no reason. a GOOD friend would have supported me in my decision to be Jennifer's friend.
As I said before, me and Jennifer have been friends for about 10-11yrs, missed a couple of years inbetween, but I never stopped thinkin' about her or how her life might be goin'.
Within' all those years that we DID talk, she have ALWAYS been there for me, even when i wasnt the nicest person, she helped me through whatever shit i might have been goin' thru. THAT is a real friend.
So, yea. I dont care that me and rolanda aint friends, it hurted me at first but after seein' how she is and how bad she did my friend. i juss dont care now.
she finally showed her true self...
Not gonna lie.. I do hate her, i'm glad she's out my life, i don't need toxic people like that in my life.